POOL WEATHER

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It’s all fun and games until someone gets water squirted in their ears…or in their eyes…or gets dunked or thrown in the pool, but even after all that, we continued to make it fun. It’s what we do.

Gail and her family traveled to Wichita to see her daughter, Kate, and her family this weekend.

“You two should come down,” she said to Suzanne and me. “We could have a pool party.”

It took us the better part of a few seconds to decide to accept her offer. The weather was perfect–except for the wind, of course–and the company, as always, was delightful.

We battled the strong south wind all the way there, while Gail waited patiently for our arrival.

So the fun–and the memories–began.

Our mom, who didn’t know how to swim, insisted that all seven of her children take swimming lessons. She wanted us to be safe in, and enjoy the water because she couldn’t. We are so grateful that she did. We reminisced about the early June mornings in the cool temperatures, shivering in the water in the Osborne swimming pool. We practiced the simple kicking techniques for old times sake, put our faces in and out of the water, turned our heads, blew bubbles and practiced all the strokes. Then we moved on to the advanced tricks.

Gail showed off her perfected cannonball,

And Suzanne can still do a perfect swan dive:

She attempted the Nestea plunge–without the glass of tea in her hand, of course.

I didn’t have any fancy tricks, I was busy focusing on survival:

The hot sun made for a great pool day, and the backyard trees helped block the wind. The day was sheer fun, followed by Kate’s delicious dinner in the evening. Then, as all good things must do, the party came to an end. Suzanne and I hit the road with the wind at our back, sailing easily down the highway home.

It’s always fun to spend time with my sisters, but it’s a bigger bonus to spend time with their children and their families. Kate was a gracious hostess–as always, and so much fun to hang out with.

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I love the hot weather. Call me crazy, but 100-plus temperatures are my favorite. If I hadn’t got sunburned yesterday, I’d be back out there today. The wind, however, as I have made clear many times, is usually a deal-breaker for me. Gail and Suzanne continue to love the wind. I will never understand.

I will add that this weekend’s wind is more tolerable for me because I know it is a blessing for the farmers who are trying to get into the wheat fields after the big rains we have had lately. The heat and wind are drying out the wheat to bring on the harvest. We did see a few combines rolling along the interstate yesterday; they would most likely be done cutting by late June if it were a “normal” weather year.

Our brothers have been harvesting for a few days; they had less rain than southern Kansas lately. I look forward to a day in the harvest field with them soon, I try not to miss this annual farm-girl highlight.

Knowing Gail and Suzanne love the wind, I asked them to offer more specifics about their favorite weather, and this is what I got:

I will give them that. Storms remind me of the divine and infinite wisdom and wonder of our universe, that higher power that put us together in the same family as sisters, just in a different mode.

I’ll take that kind of weather any day of the year.

THE BEAUTY OF JUNE

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THE BEAUTY OF JUNE

“I wonder what it would be like to live in a world where it was always June.”                L.M. Montgomery

Second only to July in my book, June is one of the most splendid months of the year.

My mind and heart hearken back to my childhood, where June meant the beginning of the three carefree months of no school, hot weather, picking cherries, swimming lessons, Father’s Day and the beginning of wheat harvest. The cherry-picking and swimming lessons weren’t always good memories then, but they are now. I love to swim, and I am so glad our parents took the time and effort to make sure we knew how. I was scared of the water when I first started, but not anymore.

I hated to pick cherries then, but I love it now. I remember Mom waking us up early to beat the heat with our cherry-picking. We climbed our two cherry trees with a small bucket, and didn’t get down until it was full. This was followed by an afternoon of pitting cherries at the kitchen sink. It was torture then; I love it now. My husband planted a cherry tree for me in our backyard several years ago, but the frost got the blooms this spring, so there will be no cherries this year.   I did just find a bag in the freezer from last year, so that will still make a good pie.

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LAST YEAR’S CHERRY HARVEST

Today, June 21st, 2020, is Father’s Day. My family gathered at our in-laws to celebrate the fathers in the family. Good food, drink and company were enjoyed by all, as we always do when we gather there. Father’s Day has become a sweet-bitter observation, instead of the mostly bitter day that I felt for the first handful of years after our dad was gone.

To anyone who has recently lost their father, who feels only the bitter, my heart breaks for you. But, I want to let you know that time heals, and in the coming years, Father’s Day will be sweet-bitter for you, too.

I promise.

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LAST YEAR’S WHEAT HARVEST

I remember celebrating most Father’s Days of my youth in the harvest fields. Dad and my brothers would be hard at work cutting and hauling wheat. This year, harvest has not yet started on our farm, nor is there much harvesting happening where I live, 80 miles south of there. The wheat harvest begins first in the south and moves north as the climate dictates.

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30 miles south of my home, a farmer is moving his combine to the field to cut. Note the red machine, vs. the green. My International-Harvester farm-girl heart will always favor the red ones.   I don’t mind getting stuck behind slow-moving farm machinery, because they feed me, too.

Today, however, the climate here is one of unrest, as we wait for severe thunderstorms to roll in, further delaying the onset of harvest.

Aside from the fly in the ointment that storms cause for harvest-hungry farmers, these storms are another thing I like about June.

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Garage sales and lemonade stands are another sure sign of summer.

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Last night was the summer solstice. The annual “longest day of the year.” The sun shone longer in the sky than any other day, and I always observe this peak day. The days will slowly, almost imperceptibly become shorter day by day until the winter solstice occurs on December 21st. I crave sunlight, and welcome each lengthening day until the summer solstice, and now, knowing that the days will get shorter, I will again welcome the longer days starting in December.

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We were at our brother’s house near our family farm for the last year’s winter solstice. Here, the sun is setting on the shortest day of the year.

July will arrive in nine days. So will our annual guests. I will eagerly welcome both, and we will celebrate the first week of July together.

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July, with it’s honor of being the hottest month of the year in Kansas, as well as a week with some of my favorite friends, Independence Day—my second favorite holiday, and perhaps a family vacation, is my favorite month of the year. My three favorite things about Kansas are July, June and August—in that order.

Because I was born in mid-April, I came into being in July. Perhaps this is why I love July so much. Independence Day, with its fireworks, food, family and freedom, should be savored year-round, keeping its spirit alive in our hearts all year, just as we should with Christmas.

Independence–to me, means letting go of those things that hold us back and limit our happiness. With or without fireworks, it means freedom. None of us who enjoy this liberty should ever take it for granted.

As I anticipate another Fourth of July, I am delighting in decorating my home in a patriotic theme. I started on Flag Day—another great thing about June that occurs on the 14th. Today—Father’s Day, I am holding the memory of our dad close to my heart. I am also celebrating the father who made me a mother, and doing all I can to savor the beauty in every day, no matter how many minutes of sunshine it offers me.

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Our dad enjoying a lunch break in the harvest field.

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Last night’s fiery sunset was a fitting exit for our brightest star, shining longer than any other day of the year.

Happy summer solstice, happy summer, happy Father’s Day, and Happy June to you.

It’s a beauty of a month.