A TIME TO REAP
It’s harvest time in The Wheat State again–finally. The interminable cycles of rain have relented enough to allow the combines to get in the field. At least, for awhile until the next rain comes. Harvest is typically finished by July 4th, but not this year.
My husband and I took a drive to the farm last Sunday. I am incomplete without my annual visit to the harvest field. He hadn’t been for a few years, so it was time. Neither of my sisters were able to go, so he was a willing substitute.
We arrived shortly after they commenced cutting; the rains the night before kept them out of the field until early afternoon. I eagerly climbed in to the combine when we arrived,
then took a trip to the elevator.
One field was finished shortly after we arrived, and for the first time in a long time–if not forever–I got to see the first swath into the fresh field.
Independence Day is not taken lightly on the farm; my nephew added this symbol of American freedom to the combine before harvest.
I cut some wheat to display at home before the combine got to it,
and, as usual, my brother graciously gave me all I needed to grind into flour with our dad’s grinder. We left the field dirty, dusty, greasy, sweaty and hot, but fulfilled. The seeds that were sown last fall were reaped on this hot July day. They did the work then; and they are doing the work now. It is a labor of love for the American farmer; this I know from watching my dad and my brothers. It is not easy work, but they would have it no other way. It is more than a job, more than a career. It’s in their blood.
As I said I would several weeks ago, I went to Wichita earlier this week to celebrate a long-overdue reunion with my college roommates.
It has been in the making for months; we finally pulled it together, and pulled it off. We threw most–but not all-caution to the wind, feeling the air and sky on our faces as we let the top down, let our hair down, and let it all hang out.
It was a fitting ride for four women who have stuck together for 34 years, four women who have suffered profound losses in each of their families, but remain tight with each other, with three of them catching the fourth when she fell. They pick each other up, dust her off and help her move on to find joy again.
And move on, we do. There is so much more life out there to live, and clearly, we are living it. We have vowed to make July our annual reunion month. We know, beyond the triteness of the phrase, that life is indeed too short.
We planted the seeds many years ago, and we continue to reap what we have sown.
Two of the other three live in Wichita. Tracy (bottom left) lives in Kansas City. She and I left Saturday morning to return home. We talked on the way, she told me she may call another college friend who lived on the way to KC, perhaps stop to see her. “Maybe,” she said, “It’s too short of a notice, and I should do it another time.”
“Just do it now,” I told her. “This is the weekend for college reunions.” It didn’t take much to persuade her, so she gave her a call.
She wasn’t available for a visit, but welcomed the call, and realized it had been too long since they had seen each other, which expedited the plans for a visit in the near future.
Coincidentally, this friend had planned to get together with two of her college friends the night before. One of them had to cancel, but they vowed to make it happen soon.
I should have made it happen sooner, but I am reaping another harvest next week. I am traveling north with a childhood friend, I friend I see often throughout the year. We are going to visit two of my friends who happen to live in the same city. We planted the seeds of our friendship 12 and 29 years ago, and the harvest is more abundant with each visit. By another coincidence–although I don’t think either one was really that, another friend of 33 years will be visiting that same city from her home three hours away while I am there, and we plan to connect.
I won’t be posting a blog next week; I will be busy with my friends, reaping what we have sown. The harvest will be the best ever, but probably not as good as the ones in the years to come.
Tracy arrived at our get-together bearing gifts, bracelets chosen for each of us with love, with a single word printed on each of them. She knows us well:
LAUGH, FAITH, ENCOURAGE, INSPIRE
May the seeds you’ve sown bring you an abundant and joyful harvest.